WELCOMING YOUNG CHILDREN, including Thanksgiving for the birth of the
child and Baptism (often called Christening)
The church is always delighted to welcome children and
considers it has an important role working with parents as they teach their
children about Jesus and the Christian faith. There are services and
activities specifically designed with children in mind.
Thanksgiving for the birth of a child
The birth of a baby is an exciting and wonderful
experience for any parent. You will also be conscious of the huge
responsibilities of helping them to develop in mind, body and spirit. One
of the first things we can offer is a short Thanksgiving for your baby's birth
which could be held in your own home or as part of the Family Service or at the
Mothers and Toddlers service. If you wish to do this in the early months
before you are ready to plan a Baptism, or would like to discuss the options,
please contact one of the ministerial team listed later on this page.
Alternatively, you might like to say this prayer together as you hold your
child:
Creator God, we thank you for the gift of this child,
for the wonder of new life
and for the joy and the mystery of human love.
We thank you for all whose support and skill surround the beginning of life.
We thank you that we are known to you by name
and loved by you for all eternity.
We thank you for Jesus Christ,
Who has opened to us the way of love.
We praise you Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. Amen.
God our Creator,
We thank you for the gift of this child
entrusted to our care, and for the privilege of being parents.
May we be patient and understanding
ready to guide and forgive,
so that through our love
they may come to know your love;
through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
Baptism (also known as Christening)
We welcome families bringing their children for
baptism, and would be pleased to discuss any questions you might have so that
we can help you make the arrangements that you want. We would wish to
discuss the following options with you:
Baptism can take place during the Family Service on a
Sunday morning where the congregation is there to welcome the newest member
joining God's family
An alternative is for the Baptism service to be held
as a separate service at 12:30. If you have any special requirements,
please speak to the vicar involved. The separate service may be shared
with another family.
If you have a separate baptism service, we invite
families to come back to the next Family Service so that their children can be
welcomed by the congregation.
How do I arrange a Baptism?
The first step is to telephone one of the priests
listed below to discuss what your plans are and to agree in principle which
service is required.
Priest in
Charge:
Rev Linda Bond
Tel: 01234 823268
Email: revdlinda@talktalknet
Assistant Priest:
Rev Di Harpham
Tel: 01234 823222
Email: di@harpham.com
Assistant Priest:
Rev. Paula Vennells
Tel: 01234 851594
Email: paula@rusheyford.freeserve.co.uk
What happens next?
Following the discussion with the priest, you will be
asked to contact the Benefice Administrator (see below) to find a mutually
convenient date. You will then be sent a booklet explaining the details
that need to be arranged with the church and a book explaining in more detail
what the service of baptism involves.
If this is your first baby to be baptised,
a baptism visitor will be in contact with you to visit you at home. They
will want to take details for the baptism register, will have booklets to send
to each of the Godparents that you have chosen, and will give you an
opportunity to discuss the baptism in more detail. This is a very
informal visit where you will have the chance to ask any questions you may
have.
Nearer to the date of the service, the priest who will
be taking the service will also want to visit you to take you through what
happens during the service so that you are familiar with it and explain the
meaning and symbolism behind what happens. We can also explore the part
that any older children in the family can play in the service, e.g. receiving
the candle which is given to your child at baptism, or doing a reading during
the service.
Benefice
Administrator
Suzi Webb
Tel: 01234
825454, Mon to Thur am
Email: administrator@bromhambenefice.org
Any cost?
We are always delighted to welcome any families for
baptism and do not charge anything with the exception of an organist fee if you
choose to have a separate afternoon baptism service and would like an organist
to accompany the singing. The charge is £35. If there are two
families, the cost is shared.
You may wish to make contact at our mothers and
toddlers service (Messy Church at
11:30 – 13:30 at St Owen's Church, Bromham on Mondays during term time) for a warm welcome, a
drink and a biscuit, some craft, an act of worship and lunch.
For general information and background on Baptism in
the Church of England, please click on this
link which will open in a new window.